While the term ‘girly’ isn’t inherently negative and many embrace the more traditionally feminine aspects of celebration, there’s a growing trend towards diversifying the activities associated with hen parties. Whether your tastes lean towards the traditionally masculine or somewhere in the middle, it’s all about personal preference. The good news is, hen parties today are evolving beyond the stereotypical pink decor and risqué entertainment, unless that’s what you desire. Here are a few suggestions for those looking to spice up their hen do with something a little different.
Embrace Variety
Remember, just like a stag do, a hen party often includes guests with diverse preferences. You might encounter someone at a hen do who doesn’t fancy rock climbing just as you might meet a stag who isn’t keen on strip clubs. Organizing a hen do, therefore, can unfold in one of two ways:
- Plan strictly according to your own preferences, letting guests adjust on their own.
- Attempt to please everyone.
While the latter might sound appealing, it often leads to a less enjoyable experience for you. It’s your party, so focus on what will make you happiest. True friends will participate and make the most out of the activities because they care about making great memories with you.
Adventure and Teamwork: Paintball
Don’t gloss over this one! Although paintballing is often associated with “boyish” fun, it’s an exhilarating activity that brings more laughs than bruises. It’s fast-paced and thrilling, offering a chance for everyone to engage in team-based strategies. Yes, it can be a bit painful, but that’s part of the thrill. Most venues offer games that keep everyone involved, and the shared stories of battle scars can be a great bonding experience during post-game relaxation. Some places even tailor events specifically for hen parties.
The Thrill of the Race: Go-Karting
Here’s another suggestion that might seem out of the ordinary for a hen do—go-karting. It’s an incredibly fun way to get an adrenaline rush, and it’s physically demanding in a way that’s both challenging and rewarding. You don’t need any special equipment; many tracks offer all the necessary gear and organize everything for your group. With motorsport being an equal playing field, it’s a perfect chance to showcase that speed has no gender.
Catch a Wave: Surfing
Surfing is a fantastic and increasingly popular sport among women, yet it rarely makes it onto the hen do agenda—something that should change. You don’t need to be in Hawaii to catch some waves; the UK has plenty of surf-ready beaches. Starting with the hilarity of squeezing into wetsuits, to practicing pop-ups on the sand, and then hitting the water, surfing is an engaging group activity. It’s not only fun but also a great ice-breaker for guests who might not know each other well.
So there you have it—three creative and non-traditional hen do ideas that break away from the girly stereotype. Even if you’re a fan of glitter and glam, you can still incorporate these elements into a themed day or as part of a stylish night out after an adventurous day. Go out, try something new, and create lasting memories that will be the talk of your wedding and beyond!
